Why, When, Where & How?

First, I need to say thank you to my wonderful husband for setting up this blog for me. Thank you! I love you! The entire thing was giving me sweaty palms. I would label myself as "computer challenged". (I'm surprised I just figured out how to make a post on it- Yay me!)
For our friends and family that don't live near us, which is most of them, we'd love for you to be able to follow us along.

So, to answer a few questions:

Why? Peter had talked with me about wanting to adopt for a few years. I was sure I didn't want to and was pretty set on the idea that it wasn't going to happen. I promised him I would pray about it. My conversations with God would go something like this... If it's something you want for us to do, please give me a clear sign. Something would clearly happen and I'd say, give me another one. (So much for listening to God's words!) This past July, I received some information that was so in my face. It was clearly God's plan for our family to add another special someone into our life and home. Of course, I cried. I am so thankful for Peter and God's persistence! Since then, every decision has seemed to just fall into place.

Why Ethiopia? It was definitely a "God thing" once again. It felt right, where we were supposed to find our little one. I think we also felt like we would be making a difference. The information about the orphans... estimated 4.3 million in a country about twice the size of Texas! Current average life expectancy is 45 years old. They estimate Ethiopia to have 3 medical doctors for every 100,000 people. In saying this, Yes, there are orphans all over the world that need homes and to be adopted. This is just where we felt we were being led to do it from.

When? We submitted our application and received approval this past July from America World Adoption. They don't have a local branch where we live, so we also have an agency in Sacramento in charge of doing our homestudy, Family Connections Christian Adoptions. So far, our adoption has looked like this: Paperwork, paperwork and more paperwork. It has been slightly overwhelming at times. Keep your eye on the prize! Whenever I'm complaining (me, never), Peter has been so encouraging. I think the process is expected to take about 12-24 months. This includes: Completing all our paperwork, attending classes, having our homestudy completed, and receiving our visa application/clearance/approval. All of this is notarized, certified and then authenticated at the embassy and then to Ethiopia. All this paperwork is called a "Dossier". After it's sent, Dossier to Ethiopia (DTE), it's translated and then you wait for a referral. The referral is expected to include a picture, social and medical history. You then have the option of accepting or declining. Upon accepting, our agency will handle our travel arrangements and Peter and I will travel to the capital of Ethiopia, Addis Ababa, to pick him up. We will be in-country for about a week and return home with our new bundle of love!
More details: We've requested a boy, 0-2years.

Are we excited???? We can hardly stand it! The girls are soooooo excited. Elizabeth's only concern so far: "Mom, Why do you have to go to Ethiopia for a baby? Can't you get a baby that speaks Californian? How is he going to understand me?" However, she's also quite happy that he'll look "just like her" because they'll both have curly hair. Every night we pray for him, his birth mom and the people taking care of him. I also hear, "Mom, is he borned yet?" We don't know so many of the details yet, but we are confident that God has that special little someone already picked out and planned to be part of the Coffaro family.

One of my favorite verses from the bible is Psalm 139:13-16

For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place. When I was woven together in the depths of the earth, your eyes saw my unformed body. All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.

Peter reminds me that this isn't about us, it's about being faithful to God and his plan for us. We can not even grasp, at this moment, what a blessing this new little boy will be! God is good!
Please keep us in your prayers as we go on this incredible journey. We love all of you and appreciate your support.
XO